Honoring Women, "Engendering Progress"

The Second Annual ‘Engendering Progress’ event honoring women thought-leaders, activists, and trailblazers will be held on Thursday, March 24th from 7-11pm at popular establishment Marquee at 289 Tenth Avenue in Manhattan.

This year’s honorees include: GEMS, Domestic Workers United, Women’s Media Center, Krista Brenner (pro-choice activist and one of the few women in New York State to hold the position of campaign manager in 2010) and Lizz Winstead, co-creator of the Daily Show. We are expecting a strong showing of several hundred progressive young people and a special guest elected official!

HERE is information on last year’s honorees as well as some pictures of the event which attracted over 100 young people and brought together many groups that had not had the chance to meet previously.

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Co-sponsors include: NY Downstate Young Democrats, NYS Young Democrats Caucus of Color, Greater NYC for Change, New Kings Democrats, Paradigm Shift (NYC’s Feminist Community), Women Elect, and NARAL Pro-choice NYC.

From Violence to Empowerment: Combatting Domestic Violence In Your Community- FREE Interactive Webinar

  • Webinar is open to the public and Berkeley College students
  • General Public: Preregistration is available until 4 PM EST- submit your name and email:
    rsvp@paradigmshiftnyc.com
  • Limit 50 – please note that preregistration is encouraged, but does not hold your spot, webinar is first come first serve.
  • Instructions:  Visit Berkeley College WebEx Meeting: http://bit.ly/e6hLLT
  • Members of the public may login as a guest by clicking “Enter as a Guest” under “Not a member?”
  • You will be prompted with phone dial in information

About Quentin Walcott:

At CONNECT, Quentin is the Director of the CONNECT Training Institute (CTI) and Community Empowerment programs. Quentin also spearheads the Male Anti-Violence initiatives, where he creatively develops programming training, educational programs centered on males to cultivate participation and leadership by men in the anti-violence movement.  Quentin developed a curriculum and training for young adult males that examined violence against women and girls at V-Day’s New York Stop the Violence Festival as part of the newly created V-Day Men’s Committee. Quentin and his team of anti-violence educators have launched city-wide workshops for men and boys looking to transform them from bystanders to allies to activists against family and gender violence.

Quentin was trained, supervised and mentored by Dr. John Aponte, and started  facilitating Batterer’s Intervention groups throughout New York City over 14 years ago.  Quentin is currently the Co-Chair of the Committee on Working with Abusive Partners Batterers.

Quentin has previously worked with the Educational Alliance Early Head Start, piloting their Father Involvement Program and Southern Queens Park Association’s Families In Need Preventive Services Program as a teen group facilitator and Domestic Violence Specialist.  Quentin has a wealth of experience facilitating groups for young and adult males on masculinity, manhood development, fathering, batterer’s intervention and accountability. Quentin combines his experience working with social agencies and several years of human rights work bringing a new and fresh perspective to the work to end family violence.

CONNECT is dedicated to preventing interpersonal violence and promoting gender justice. By building partnerships with individuals and communities, we strive to help change the beliefs, behaviors and institutions that perpetuate violence. Through legal empowerment, grassroots mobilization and transformative education, we seek to create safe families and peaceful communities.

Berkeley College, established in 1931 as a business school, has grown since that time to a thriving multi-campus institution offering degree programs in a variety of disciplines. With seven locations in New York and New Jersey, Berkeley today offers programs that balance traditional academic study with professional training and hands-on experience.

JOIN PARADIGM SHIFT TOMORROW AT THE RALLY FOR WOMEN’S HEALTH!

Meet PShifters at 12:30 PM Tomorrow- Front of Duane Reade at 111 Worth St., corner of Worth and Lafayette

Look for the PShift banner (cell 201.394.8173)

Right now Congress has 1 agenda item: take away your access to reproductive health care.
The U.S. House of Representatives has just voted to bar Planned Parenthood health centers from all federal funding for birth control, cancer screenings, HIV testing, and other lifesaving care. It is the most dangerous legislative assault in our history, and it cannot go unanswered.

IT’S TIME TO FIGHT BACK!

Join us Saturday, February 26th at 1:00pm in Foley Square!  Stand with thousands of New Yorkers and voice a common message:

WOMEN’S HEALTH MUST BE PROTECTED!

RSVP here TODAY: http://bit.ly/eX9rEb And share this event with your friends!

Sponsoring Organizations: (List in formation) Choice Matters, Community Health Care Networks, Concerned Clergy for Choice, Diaspora Community Services, Family Planning Advocates of New York State, Feminist Majority Foundation, Judson Memorial Church, League of Women Voters-Nassau County, Inwood House, Long Island Women’s Association, NARAL Pro-Choice NY, National Advocates for Pregnant Women, National Council of Jewish Women New York Section, New York Civil Liberties Union, NOW-New York City, NOW-New York State, Planned Parenthood Affiliates New Jersey, Planned Parenthood Federation of America, Planned Parenthood Mid- Hudson Valley, Planned Parenthood Hudson Peconic, Planned Parenthood of Nassau County, Planned Parenthood of New York City, Physicians for Reproductive Choice and Health, Public Health Association of New York City, Public Health Solutions, Raising Women’s Voices, Religious Institute, Reproductive Health Access Project, SisterSong NY, Trust Black Women, Trust Women, United Neighborhood Houses, Violence Intervention Inc., Women’s Media Center, Working Families Party, YWCA of Brooklyn


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Directions:
Foley Square is in lower Manhattan, across from the courthouse:
A/C or J/Z to Chambers St.
2, 3 to Park Place
4/5/6, N,R to City Hall

The Right to Breathe: A Guest Post by Carly Anger

Gender inequality in advertising is certainly not a new topic. As an instructor, part of my job is to make sure that my students leave my classroom as better analytical thinkers; one way we do this is through studying the advertisements that they see everyday. My students seem receptive to discussing the damaging way in which media represents a “norm” of how men and women should act and look.

As I was looking for interesting ads to share with my students, I found this ad from Axe, a product from Unilever. The Axe commercials, which usually feature a man with an admiring group of scantily clad women fawning over him because he has just used the product, are at best mildly amusing (I begrudgingly admit) and are at worst dangerous for women everywhere in that they suggest woman are just objects to obtain. However, this ad is different from the other Axe ads and even different from ads that can be considered more offensive than the previously mentioned commercials.

This specific ad, which shows a woman face down in a bathtub full of water, apparently providing sexual pleasure for a man, does not have the right to a face, the right to an identity, or even the right to breathe. The ad is certainly harmful to women, but it also speaks out against sexuality. The man, with what can be interpreted as an entitled look on his face, is not even touching the drowning woman.

I have brought this ad to the attention of several students, friends, family members, and colleagues, many of whom did not share my same concerns. Some found my reference to “drowning” a stretch, pointed out that the woman is “voluntarily engaged” and suggested that I look at the ad with a less literal lens. Perhaps. However, if she is not physically drowning (though it is difficult to imagine that she is not, since after all, she has no access to air), she is certainly metaphorically drowning; she is submerged into an abyss where here identity is meaningless. When not taken “literally” and instead taken “metaphorically,”the results are no better.

The only thing that is missing in order to make the ad the absolute epitome of problematic advertising is a sponge in one of her hands so that she can simultaneously please the man and wash the tub. The advertisement, and many others, is scary in its cavalier attitude about the rights of women. It becomes “normal” for women to be perpetually cleaning and perpetually taking care of others, even at her own expense, or in this case life.

The intelligence of the ad makers and their decision to represent women in this manner is reflected in the bathtub itself. A critical thinker is not only left questioning how a woman could be treated in this brutal manner, but also how the bathtub became full without a faucet.

If this ad has upset you please let them know:
http://www.theaxeeffect.com/contact.html

Carly Anger is an instructor and PhD candidate at Marquette University in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. The subject of her dissertation is American coming-of-age novels with female protagonists published in the 1940’s. Any comments/concerns are welcome.

Feminist Documentaries at MOMA

Last year, Paradigm Shift proudly hosted a screening of Jesse Epstein’s “Body Typed” a series of short films on perfection, including 34x25x36.  If you missed it, 34x25x36 will be screening with pioneering feminist films of the 1970’s at The Museum of Modern Art.

Documentary Fortnight 2011: MoMA’s International Festival of Nonfiction Film and Media
Saturday, February 26, 2011, 1:30 p.m.

The line-up includes the founding documentaries of New Day Films, listed below. New Day was formed by independent filmmakers in 1971, and 40 years later, New Day’s filmmaker owned & operated distribution model is still going strong.

34x25x36 is Executive Produced by Chicken & Egg Pictures in Association with The Fledgling Fund, and received a national PBS Broadcast on POV. Includes music by T. Griffin of the Quavers. Distributed through New Day Films.

Program 97 min. Introduction and discussion with Reichert, Klein, Brandon, Rothschild, Epstein

The Films:
* 34x25x36
2009. USA. Directed by Jesse Epstein. Inside the Patina-V mannequin factory in the City of Industry, CA, the “ideal woman” is crafted out of plastic into a 34 x 25 x 36″ figure. The chief designer notes that the roots of his craft lie in French 19th-century wax figures and in the medieval religious icons. New York festival premiere.  8 min.  JesseDocs.com

*  Anything You Want to Be
1971. USA. Directed by Liane Brandon. In a series of vignettes, a teenage girl discovers that despite her parents’ assurance that she can “be anything she wants to be,” reality sometimes throws a curveball. 8 min.

* Growing Up Female
1971. USA. Directed by Julia Reichert, James Klein. This early film of the modern Women’s Movement was widely used by consciousness-raising groups to generate interest and explain feminism to a skeptical society. The film looks at female socialization through the lives of six women, ages 4 to 35, and the forces that shape them, including teachers, counselors, advertising, music, and the institution of marriage. 50 min.

* It Happens to Us
1972. USA. Directed by Amalie R. Rothschild. This film presents the personal stories of a wide range of women, rich and poor, young and older, black and white, married and unmarried, on the topic of abortion. Some of their stories evoke experiences from before the 1973 Roe vs. Wade Supreme Court decision. 30 min.

Women’s Sexuality Workshop: FREE INTRO NIGHT!

Are you ready to own your sexuality, to reclaim it, heal it and celebrate it? Come explore the current state of your sexuality and possibilities for growth with other women in a safe environment.

Wednesday, March 09, 2011 from 7:00-9:00 PM
Moonheart Healing Arts Center: 59 West 19th Street Suite 3A2A, New York, NY 10011

Amy Jo Goddard is beginning a new session of the Women’s Sexuality Empowerment Apprenticeship on March 22, 2011 in New York City. This program is a serious commitment to your sexual self. It’s a program that fills a gap for women who are seeking a unique environment where they can study themselves intimately. There is no way it won’t transform the women who choose it. In this free introductory night, Amy Jo will help women to assess where they are in their own sexuality and lead them in a guided meditation and interactive discussion. As an attendee, you will be able to ask questions of her and former participants of the women’s sexuality program to see whether the program feels right for you. There is no obligation to take the program, and you will definitely walk away with some clarity about your own sexuality.

Click here for more information and to sign up!

Master Class Writers' Retreat for Women!

Woodhull Institute for Ethical Leadership
February 25-27, 2011
Get inspiration. Get guidance. Get published!
Mention you saw this on Paradigm Shift NYC and save $100!

Join us for a weekend long training program located in our beautiful facility in upstate New York! In this long weekend of writing instruction and one-on-one critique, participants gain fundamental knowledge of developing, marketing and pitching works of fiction and nonfiction.

This is a fantastic opportunity for women of all ages who are interested in writing and publishing! Surprisingly, many otherwise talented fiction/non-fiction writers have never been taught the basic skill of organizing their material – their narrative or their argument – along the lines of a coherent and clear outline. This workshop will provide participants with skills such as jumpstarting your creativity, connecting with an agent, and identifying a winning idea.

We are privileged to have this retreat led by awarding-winning and best-selling authors Barbara Victor and Christina Baker Kline.

Barbara Victor is a journalist who has covered the Middle East for most of her career. She worked for CBS television for fifteen years, has worked at U.S. News and World Report, Elle, Femme and Madame Figaro. She was the first person to interview Moammar Ghadaffi after the American bombing of Libya in 1986, and has interviewed many major political figures in the U.S. and the Middle East. Barbara is the author of five novels and seven non-fiction books.

Christina Baker Kline is the author of four novels, including, most recently, Bird in Hand and The Way Life Should Be. She has taught creative writing and literature at Yale, NYU, Drew, and UVA, and is currently Writer-in-Residence at Fordham University. She is an editor on staff at the social networking site SheWrites and her blog is “A Writing Life: Notes on Craft & the Creative Process.”

*The Woodhull Institute is committed to making it possible for all women to participate in our powerful leadership trainings and writers’ workshops. We offer flexible payment plans, limited scholarships, and need-based financial aid.

Please feel free to contact our Program Coordinator, Rebecca at RMarcus@woodhull.org with any questions regarding this retreat, applying, or about Woodhull as an organization.

"The How and the Why" – A Play About Gender, Power, and Evolutionary Biology

You won’t want to miss The How and the Why, an amazing play featuring Mercedes Ruehl and Bess Rous, presented by the McCarter Theatre in Princeton, New Jersey!

Although the plot focuses on the relationship between two evolutionary biologists, one new to the field, the other “very established,” the play is about much more than what meets the eye.  According to Emily Mann, the show’s director, “The How and the Why is a play about sex and gender, power and age, nature and nurture, loss and love… that compels us to examine some of the unexplored questions of what it is to be a woman… It is also a great relationship play—about two women of different generations desperately trying to find a common ground.

Sarah’s dialogue is sharp and her characters complex; but most of all, her ideas are challenging—both intellectually and emotionally.”

After tomorrow night’s matinee performance, Erica Nagel will be curating “The How and the Why in Conversation: Blazing Trails and Taking Names.” According to Nagel, it will be an “interdisciplinary conversation featuring some pretty amazing folks,” including Jill Dolan, Emily Mann, Franziska Michor, Daniel Rubenstain, Shirley Tilghman, and Gina Kolata.  These individuals are experts in their fields, ranging from molecular biology to gender studies.

For more information about performance schedules and reserving tickets, visit this website!

“Madame Name” – A Poem by Cristina Dominguez

He handed her over
to the knife
and she knew
what it wanted–
to rub against her
to cut raw
what wasn’t
even ripe

He laid her
down
on the board
on the bed
They must be fed
They are starving
and growing
boys

Tolerating the noise
his senseless sex
she shrinks
in my mind
flinching from
the pinch
the pressure
of his pleasure

Pulling the scabs
from her skin
she’d rather bleed out
than heal without a scar
she won’t be
the maiden martyr
the fruit on the
limbs of his whim

She won’t fast,
She hungers
for the flesh
from under his wing
She wants to make poultry
the muscles he used
the patriarchy
he shrouded her in

Unearthing the seeds they spilled
female fingers
plunge into
fertile ground
they check the bulb
they tender it now
and it smells of sweet meat
a sugary sustenance

pouring out from their cunts
onto tangled sheets
ink from inside
where he could not reach
Her signature is far from plain
for pleasure and pain
did not take his name

Tony Simmons Sentenced to Four Years in Prison; Women’s Rights Advocates Celebrate Justice for Young Victims

New York, NY. Tony Simmons – a juvenile court guard convicted of molesting two girls in juvenile detention— was sentenced by Judge Carol Berkman to four years in prison and ten years probation on multiple counts of committing a Criminal Sexual Act and Sexual Abuse.  The judge noted that both the girls’ young ages and the position of Tony Simmons as an employee of the Department of Juvenile Justice entrusted with their care warranted a sentence in the maximum range.

NOW-NYC Executive Director, Sonia Ossorio called the news a victory for all survivors of sexual assault, saying:  “An attacker who was set to get a slap on the wrist will now be serving four years in prison, largely because our community of  women’s rights organizations and anti-violence advocates demanded that rape be taken seriously.”

Just this past November, Simmons had been days away from finalizing a plea deal of probation with no jail time for sexually assaulting three girls in his custody in the Manhattan Family Court Building.  After an overwhelming community outcry against the lenient sentence led by the New York City chapter of the National Organization for Women, Judge Cassandra Mullen changed her offer to 3 years in state prison. Simmons chose to face trial, and on January 21st, Simmons was found guilty by a jury of his peers on 12 of the 14 counts against him:  Criminal Sexual Act in the Third Degree (a class E felony, two counts), Sexual Abuse in the Second Degree (a class A misdemeanor, five counts), and Sexual Abuse in the Third Degree (a class B misdemeanor, five counts).

Ossorio points out, “He almost got away with it. Simmons targeted these girls precisely because he thought they were not in a position to stand up for themselves and that no one would believe them.  Today, he was proven wrong.”

In response to this egregious case and the initial offer of probation for a confessed rapist, NOW-NYC launched a “Take Rape Seriously” campaign to turn up the pressure on the criminal justice system in New York. Nearly 18% of women in the U.S. have survived a completed or attempted rape.  It’s estimated that only 39% of rapes are reported nationwide and only 6% of rapists will spend any time in prison.

“There is an epidemic of abuse happening to our most vulnerable kids, those in the juvenile justice system.  One in eight detained youth has been sexually abused according to a report by the Department of Justice.  Predators like Tony Simmons think these kids don’t matter to society,” said Ossorio.

The National Organization for Women is the nation’s largest organization working to advance women’s rights and improve women’s lives. The New York City Chapter of NOW, founded in 1966, is the largest chapter in the country with 5,000 members locally and 35,000 statewide.  NOW-NYC works to promote women’s reproductive rights, secure women’s economic empowerment, and end violence and discrimination against women.

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