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Mother’s Day Video Contest- Deadline 5/7- Tell Your Story and Win Women’s Media Center Feature

As mothers, daughters, grandmothers, friends, women – we all have stories to tell. Whether you’ve chosen motherhood, an education, a career path, a marriage, a divorce, or all of the above – those choices belong to you. This Mother’s Day, the Women’s Media Center wants to recognize every woman’s right to choose by celebrating the choices they’ve made.

Pam Tebow told her story, now tell us YOURS.  In February, Women’s Media Center campaigned for CBS and the NFL to pull Focus on the Family’s anti-choice Super Bowl commercial. Though the ad aired and Pam Tebow told her story of choice to millions of people — it was only one story, of many.

We want to hear YOUR story!  Create a video no more than 1 minute long and send it to us – we’ll pick the best one and feature it on our homepage this Mother’s Day!

Amplify your voice. Change the conversation. Send your video tovideo@womensmediacenter.com by Friday, May 7,  2010. Submissions should be no larger than 25MB.

Nominate Paradigm Shift as “Top-Rated Women’s Empowerment Non-profits”- Sponsored by WMC

Nominate Paradigm Shift as Top-Rated Women’s Empowerment Nonprofits!  How has Paradigm Shift impacted you?  Click here to nominate and support our efforts.  Deadline May 31, 2010 (we need at least 10 nominations- let’s hear from you!).

This month, Women’s Media Center is excited to be counted as a partner with the Women’s Empowerment Campaign! Run byGreatNonProfits.org, the Campaign also includes Kiva, the Anita Borg Institute for Women and TechnologyWomen’s News Network, andWomen’s Philanthropy – Women’s Issues. Throughout May, the campaign aims to identify top-rated nonprofits focusing on women’s issues, working like the Yelp or Tripadvisor of nonprofits. Any group getting ten positive reviews will be recognized on our Top-Rated Women’s Empowerment Nonprofits List published at the end of the campaign.

So what can you do? Visit the campaign and tell us about YOUR experience — how are these organizations having an impact? Your participation in this campaign helps identify the nonprofits that are making a difference for women. Nonprofits and community members will be able to interact and engage directly, helping organizations learn more about becoming more effective and useful resources.

Make sure you take a quick moment to rate the Women’s Media Center and write a review.  Share your experiences and let us know why you support the WMC!

This month, tell your story, and help bring out the best in women’s nonprofits!

First Words – a poem by Cristina Dominguez

Hello, hi
Yes, I’m here..
answering a calling
stammering
clamming up,
gathering up the courage
How do I do this?
Is it a choice?
The voice that I use
to sing the hymn
that I choose?

I’d say anything
I don’t want to loose
where this is going,
But I’m already lost
I don’t want to be your token girl
Flailing–
failing to capture
the enrapture;
the love that I have
for them

I hear them
expire as they are spoken.
I’m choking on their meaning
as I aspire to
reach the speech
I’m climbing to give,
the life I’m dying to live
trying to sift through
the bullshit
to get to the me
that you can’t see,
that even I doubt
I can be

The one active-
present and pushing
The pen I explored
implored by
the brilliant beckoning
that forced me to
take on this reckoning
to feel around
in my desk drawer
before
I laid my head back
down
and tried
with much practical pride
to ignore
my wants
my thoughts
caught up in
where I’m headed
and where I’ve been

That’s why I’m here,
not out of some
insane belief
that I’ve got
the proof
of a gift
or the truth
or enough wit
to hide behind

I’m new to this
but I’m doing this
Because if I left my story untold
I’d age
be old in a way
that will leave me
in bed with regret,
at rest with the best of me
instead of letting it free

Clawing at the page
scrawling out
my rage
my affection
my craving
for the waves of my words
reaching your ears
and returning to me
ample in amplified intensity
and new meaning

I’m here out of fear
taking my step out there
out where
I’m openly
inwardly broken.
Where spoken word
means I’m heard,
where I’m whispering
my way to a scream

REVEAL conference: Young Women Defining the Divine

The REVEAL conference was founded for women of all ages to come together and hear the wisdom of a fiery, new generation of emerging female spiritual leaders.

Join us May 8th at Union Theological Seminary in NYC for REVEAL

To realize your soul’s strength and beauty…
To hear your spiritual voice, to take it seriously, and put it in service to the world…
To be part of a cutting edge movement that demands complete justice for women in the world especially in the realm of the sacred

Through sizzling, keynote speakers and experiential, interactive workshops, you will be given practical spiritual tools that will empower & inspire you to do what your soul longs most for you to do in the world!

Some of the trail-blazing, soul-voices you will experience at REVEAL 2010:

SERA BEAK, GABRIELLE BERNSTEIN, RHA GODDESS, JOANNA LINDENBAUM & DAWN COPELAND, NICOLE OHEBSHALOM, ALISA VITTI

To learn more about REVEAL: www.revealconference.org
To register for the REVEAL: http://www.revealconference.org/ConfDetails.html

There is nothing more powerful than a spiritually
empowered woman to create justice in her life and in our world.

There is currently an early-bird special of only $79 if you sign up before May 1st. To see a full list of presenters and to find out more about this amazing opportunity please visit our website.

SINGLE CHOICE: MANY LIVES, as part of REEL DIALOGUE – the free, ongoing, documentary film series

The Hunter College Department of Film & Media Studies and the
IMA/MFA Program in association with the Women and Gender Studies Program present
SINGLE CHOICE: MANY LIVES, as part of REEL DIALOGUE
-the free, ongoing, documentary film series

Monday – May 3, 2010
6:30PM Reception – 7:00PM Screening

Hunter College, 695 Park Avenue
Lang Recital Hall, 4th Floor, North Building
Entrance (69th Street between Lexington and Park Avenues, NYC)

Post-Screening Panel Discussion with Q&A
Filmmaker will be present

SINGLE CHOICE: MANY LIVES explores single motherhood via donor
insemination and its implications through the intimate
perspectives of mothers, donor-conceived individuals, and
donors, among others, to raise awareness about assisted
reproductive technologies and the growing trend of alternative
families. This relevant and timely film skillfully travels
around the country- and the heart- to get to the bottom of the
changing face of parenthood. More about the film at:
http://singlechoicemovie.com/

“SINGLE CHOICE: MANY LIVES slowly and artfully reveals layer
after layer of nuance and complexity. Hundhausen’s refusal to
provide simple answers could not be more provocative.”
-Steve Gorelick, Ph.D., Hunter College

Contact;
Tami Gold, Series Producer
212.772.4953
tamigold@mindspring.com

Don’t miss these great upcoming events in the NY birth community!

Wine tasting event to benefit Choices in Childbirth

Thursday, May 20th
6:30-8:30 pm

Moore Brothers Wine Company
33 East 20th Street, Manhattan

Sample delicious wines hand selected and generously donated by the Moore Brothers, enjoy live jazz music, and win great prizes from our silent auction.

Tickets $75 each. RSVP Required
Click here to RSVP.

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The Ecstatic Journey of Birth & Sex – this Friday!
A Sex-Positive Midwife’s Insights into the Original Mystery

Friday, April 30: 7:00-9:30 PM

Reflections Yoga: 250 West 49th Street

Women have one interconnected system for babies, bliss and bonding! Discover the integral relationship between the processes of birth, sexual arousal and orgasm.
Includes a discussion of fertility/infertility.

Pre-Register On-line Only $25 | $30-$50 sliding scale at the door

To pre-register: www.intimateartscenter.com

Sheri Winston is the evening’s presenter. Her book, Women’s Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure, just won the 2010 Book of the Year award from AASECT (the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists)!

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May’s FREE Meetings for New & Expectant Parents
Hosted Monthly by Choices in Childbirth

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Inspiring Birth Stories

Thursday, May 6th
6:15 – 8:30 pm
Still Hip*: 283 Grand Ave (Clinton Hill)
*Come early for exclusive shopping discounts!

RSVP here

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Healthy Birth Choices : Choosing your Care Provider & Setting

Monday, May 17th
6:15 – 8:30 pm
Realbirth: 715 9th Ave, Manhattan

RSVP here

Human Rights Campaign to repeal “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” – Be a part of it!

By Eric Alva
Retired Marine Staff Sergeant
Veterans Lobby Day Volunteer

I’ve spent three years telling my story to audiences across the country and working with the Human Rights Campaign to repeal “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” and I’ve never seen so much momentum to end this discriminatory policy.

In two weeks, we’re going to capture that momentum and bring it to Capitol Hill.

On May 11, I’ll be joining hundreds of other current and former members of the military at the Veterans Lobby Day to deliver one clear message to Congress – “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” must end this year.

HRC and Servicemembers United are working to make this event as high-profile and effective as possible, and the head count matters. A lot. We need all hands on deck.

If you have friends or family who are veterans, please spread the word about our Veterans Lobby Day – and encourage them to join us.
Send them here:

www.VeteransLobbyDay.org

I signed up for the Marines when I was just 19 years old. I served for 13 years, from Somalia to California to Japan, and then shipped out to Iraq. Three hours into the start of the ground war, I stepped on a landmine and almost lost my life.

I was the first American soldier wounded in Iraq; I received a Purple Heart, and President Bush visited me in the hospital. As I slowly recovered, the shame of this policy that forced me and thousands of other soldiers to hide began to enrage me.

I traveled to Washington and came out with my story, which was all over the national news. The response blew me away. Almost every single Marine I’d served with – gay and straight – called me with support. And I’ve been fighting this fight ever since.

Watching this campaign build over the past three years, I know how important this Lobby Day is in our battle for repeal. It’s our last chance to speak out before Congress takes action on the National Defense Authorization Act – the bill that should contain the “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” repeal language.

So it’s crunch time. And whether you’re a veteran, a friend or relative of a service member, or simply someone who believes in equality, I hope you’ll support this Lobby Day and help us end “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.”

Learn how you – and any veterans you know – can be a part of this important day.

P.S. To learn more about HRC’s national campaign to repeal “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” or to take action right now, go to www.hrc.org/repealdadt.

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Wings & Dreams: 4 Elements of a New Feminism- Discussion with Maria-Anna Foohs, Publisher

Wings & Dreams:4 Elements of a New Feminism publisher, Maria-Anna Foohs, of Bavaria, Germany, will be at Bluestockings bookstore, at 7 pm on May 23, 2010, to discuss, read, and open the conversation on a New Feminism. This book, reviewed by Paradigm Shift’s Shawnta Smith, is in German and English, and invites women and men to harmonize to solve some major women’s rights issues.

For more information on “Wings and Dreams: 4 Elements of a New Feminism”

Rethinking Virginity Conference

VISIT WWW.RETHINKINGVIRGINITY.TUMBLR.COM FOR FULL SCHEDULE AND SPEAKER BIOS

May 3, 2010
10:15am- 5:15pm
Harvard University

Is there a sex-positive way to teach abstinence? What are the historical and cultural origins of the virginity ideal? How does a queer person lose their virginity? Does anyone even know what virginity really is?

From debunking myths to defying norms, the Rethinking Virginity Conference will feature gender and sexuality scholars and experts, including:

Lori Adelman ’08 (Feministing.com, International Women’s Health Coalition)
Lux Alptraum (Fleshbot)
Chloe Angyal (Feministing.com)
Megara Bell (Partners In Sex Education)
Sady Doyle (Tiger Beatdown)
Dr. R. Marie Griffith (Harvard Divinity School)
Elizabeth Janaik (Center for Wellness at Harvard University Health Services)
Dr. Kathleen Kelly (Department of English at Northeastern University)
Shelby Knox (“The Education of Shelby Knox”)
Ellyn Ruthstrom (Bisexual Resource Center)
Therese Shechter (“I Was A Teenage Feminist”, “How To Lose Your Virginity”).

This conference is free and open to the public. Attendance at the entire conference is not mandatory but please register if you plan on attending any part of the event. To register, RSVP to this Facebook page and send an email to rethinkingvirginity@gmail.com with your name in the subject line of your email.

For more information, visit www.rethinkingvirginity.tumblr.com. Does your organization want to table at the event? Interested in becoming an official publicity partner? Email lenachen[at]fas.harvard.edu.

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In between – a poem by Cristina Dominguez

The girl
stands at the bar
cold
in the crowd
warming up.
She’s invisible
or too visibly impatient

She waits, unwillingly
to close out
to close off
to close in
for the night.

In the buzz
she’s buzzed
brushed by
the brash and bold
musician
on a
mission
who someone already told…

“You’re amazing”
she says.
No gratitude
rude is the attitude
that it takes,
that makes you
famous,
that gets you to the
top.

She’s high, she’s into it
she grabs a drink
and attention.
The girl tries to sign–
away this moment,
her movement,
her palpable exclusion,
her denied pride and
limitless unapproved
credit

Musing,
smirking,
jerking her.
Tearing her down,
just like this town.
The musician says,

look what someone gave me
look what I’ve found

No clue
but the girl knew
it was bound
to get around.
She holds out
a piece of
paper
words written clean
but meant to be dirty–
In between

Don’t make a scene,
you were slotted for this
allotted this position:
butt of the joke
insert awkward
laugh.
Was she being mean?
does any of it mean?
does any of it have to
do with
me…?

Withdraw,
ready to go,
slow motion,
bumping arms like
bumper cars,
not enough space to be
erased in.

They watch the girl leave
but she was never there,
never where
they made her
wrote her on paper
wrote her down
wrote her off
as a friend
to the enemy.
As what they could
never trust

Dirt, dust
in the cracks
underneath their identical sneakers
they sneak
her
into the pavement.
We grieve their
achieved establishment of her station,
her defamation.

Took down her number
She’s a number
Take a number

She’s crossed the line
She’s out of line
She is the bottom line

Driving down the road,
headed to the closest
thing to home.
She knows
the demise of
the yellow lines,
the peril of their
inconsistent lives

She wishes she
didn’t have to
pass or
cross over
the loophole
of their hold

She lingers
in the middle
in the space;
In between

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